Have you ever waited for Love? I think most of us consciously or subconsciously await love to find them, to hug/engulf them and take them to it's magical land where all is well...always...the descriptions for this 'land of love' are so numerous that the 'actual land of love' (if it exists) must be having a monthly review of all of them under it's 'suggestions' section to make necessary amendments to facilities and culture.
So what is this 'waiting for love'? is it being in love and waiting for some signal to make you realize that it's love already? or is it waiting for someone to make you realize, (to blurt it out, so that it sounds so sweet and you look so innocent or unaffected by it), or waiting for someone to realize that you have fallen for them?
It can be any or all of it. Unfortunately I don't believe in the category of people who don't have anyone in their lives, with whom they want to fall in love with. They are being too optimistic or simply dreaming off their time if they are waiting for some unknown/unseen prince charming/beautiful princess. Neither do I believe in the category who marries someone and then wait for love to happen, I agree that it may very well happen and one can enjoy all there can be of Love, but I feel you don't really have an option than to Love each other. It is more like having paid a tip instantly after entering a restaurant and then waiting for good service and food.
I have been waiting for love for some time.....and I know it is most difficult patch of one's love life. You can't concentrate on anything else. May it be work, parents, friends, studies nothing. your world revolves around you who in turn revolves around that person. You like her likes and her dislikes, her friends and boyfriends, you wish to know about everything there is to know, read, talk and listen about her and somehow relate yourself to it...It can get difficult at times, especially if she has been through more of such kind of relationships....everyone carries their baggage and so does she....
Worst part of it is, you know from the beginning whether it will work out or not, but you pursue it irrespective of whether it will work out or not. Only thing you can do now is to wait......you can't tell anyone, especially your best friends(their can be multiple nowadays with the advent of social networking) as they know everything about you as well as her/him and will instantly lash out at you for being such a moron to get so deeply involved.
Sleepy......have been awaiting something....don't know what......however unpractical it may sound, you want it to happen.......so you try for it.....more ........soon.....till then have a Gr8 time.
So what is this 'waiting for love'? is it being in love and waiting for some signal to make you realize that it's love already? or is it waiting for someone to make you realize, (to blurt it out, so that it sounds so sweet and you look so innocent or unaffected by it), or waiting for someone to realize that you have fallen for them?
It can be any or all of it. Unfortunately I don't believe in the category of people who don't have anyone in their lives, with whom they want to fall in love with. They are being too optimistic or simply dreaming off their time if they are waiting for some unknown/unseen prince charming/beautiful princess. Neither do I believe in the category who marries someone and then wait for love to happen, I agree that it may very well happen and one can enjoy all there can be of Love, but I feel you don't really have an option than to Love each other. It is more like having paid a tip instantly after entering a restaurant and then waiting for good service and food.
I have been waiting for love for some time.....and I know it is most difficult patch of one's love life. You can't concentrate on anything else. May it be work, parents, friends, studies nothing. your world revolves around you who in turn revolves around that person. You like her likes and her dislikes, her friends and boyfriends, you wish to know about everything there is to know, read, talk and listen about her and somehow relate yourself to it...It can get difficult at times, especially if she has been through more of such kind of relationships....everyone carries their baggage and so does she....
Worst part of it is, you know from the beginning whether it will work out or not, but you pursue it irrespective of whether it will work out or not. Only thing you can do now is to wait......you can't tell anyone, especially your best friends(their can be multiple nowadays with the advent of social networking) as they know everything about you as well as her/him and will instantly lash out at you for being such a moron to get so deeply involved.
Sleepy......have been awaiting something....don't know what......however unpractical it may sound, you want it to happen.......so you try for it.....more ........soon.....till then have a Gr8 time.
waiting for love can be well defined only when one is in position to describe love in the first place. Not many can tell what is love cause only few actually get their love. The want of another human being with all his sanity and immaturity for the rest of your life is a feeling i called love. The thought of not being with that person scares the shit out of your soul is love. Yes there is a type of sacrifice love but that is just pain. Pure pain. Ultimately it is the perception game. Now is time to decide which side of the game you play from and then what you wait for. If you decide to stick to the pain part it just makes a stone out of you. Take it from my experience. While you have the time to heal get out of the mess. By a new watch wait for a new time.
ReplyDelete@smiley, firstly thanks for taking the pains to read it and reply.... I agree with most of your suggestions (including buying a watch, about time someone told me this :) ), but Love can't be stopped from happening, probably you can rename/brand it as infatuation, attraction, stupidity or immaturity...but whatever it is that happens when you feel something rumbling inside your stomach the moment you see/hear/read/imagine someone (and m not talking about samosas or pastas) can't be denied or ignored...
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