Monday, October 7, 2013

Unplanned Vadhusanshodhan

Jya vicharanni purvi potat goad fulpakhra udaychi tyannich ata potat gola yayla laglay...."Mulgi Cancer var research kartye, mhanje smart asnar," Aai, "Pan aapla tharlay na", Me, "ho, mag nahi sangaycha na kakula", "barobar", (usasa takat) Me, "Pan Sandip, me kay mhanto, Americket, Doctors na solid paisa milto....mhanje ekda tithla kay te additional qualification kela na....IT peksha jast....ani Research kartye mhanje hushar asanarach...., Mala vatta apan ekda sthal baghuya" Baba.......

He ase sagle vishay nighale ki me chehra titkach anabhidnya thevto jitka purvi thevaycho pan purvi tya discussions ani imaginations ni maja yaychi...ata matra bhiti vatate.....

Jar me chukichi mulgi nivadli tar? jar tila maza swabhav aavdlach nahi tar? jar me lagna tharlyavar dusrya mulichya premat padlo tar? jar mazya mitrala tichyapeksha sunder disnari mulgi milali tar? (gee, sorry ha last prashna atyant vahyat vatla tari ek mulgach samju shakto how it works....mhanje this is the criteria we evaluate more than half of the decisions we make using.....this is the most common way of thinking for teenagers....or people in early 20s....OK, I agree I am neither of them....but that's not the point)

Me decide kelela ki I need to be ready on multiple fronts before I start looking for a girl....
1. Financial: I need to have a home/plot/any property registered on my name and a (X) salary amount .....as of date, I have neither of them....

and lot other points which I prefer not to disclose.....it might happen that the girl I might wish to marry is reading this now :)

another thing I wanted to make sure is that I am done falling in love.....but well, it is too difficult to define whether its love or not even while being in it, how can I define it for future?

anyways, so before the stipulated time of 1 year from now (when we were supposed to start the bride hunting) our relatives have already started the work.....

I wish myself good luck with that....will keep you updated, till then...cheers!!

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